Are You Just a Hookup?

I am a single eighteen year old, and many may deem that as pure suckage(meaning: just put suck and garbage together). But, honestly, the single life is pretty sweet. I don't have to worry about ...anything, considering you have to put your all into a high school relationship. For those of you who go through guys like toilet paper, don't you just hate the pressure and the obligation...don't you hate getting hurt in the end? I mean, yeah, i am boy crazy, but I'm not crazy!

But, anyway, I think I'll just stay "sober" until college and resist getting drunk from the cup of romance, if you know what I mean. Guys only want one thing from us girls anyway! Screw that! I say peace for virginity(the peace sign looks like a V!-and much kudos to Amanda!) and wait until your married people!

But, some guys are really sweet and may actually wanna wait as well...man, that was really hard to say! Cuz, you ever notice how when a girl appears easy(or is known to be) she gets all the guys? She's just a hook-up-a quick thrill. She's revealing, somewhat mean, sexually agressive, and usually drunk.

But, if you actually care about yourself, think! First of all, if you are going to have sex before marriage, make sure the guy is really who you think he is. And second of all, take the relationship seriously. Seriously, I see it all the time-i have a friend who was going out with a guy yada, yada, yada she cheated on him a couple of times. You gotta love her though- she's actually changed quite a bit and she learned her lesson. Why? Well, i think she realized that if she had taken the relationship more seriously, they probably would have lasted!

Please don't underestimate me-I've been watching from the sidelines for years and I see things(some of which I don't really wanna see) that those within the relationship may not see. If you wanna be more than just a one night stand, or a hook-up, be sweet, accepting, adorable, goal oriented, respectful, and have morals. Don't have STD's! Just a few words from a happy single chick! :) !